My friend, Katie Lipensmeyer, wrote a wonderful blog about goals. Katie is a personal trainer and co-owner of one of the most amazing gyms in the Pioneer Valley. Even though New Year's was almost a month ago, I thought this article was applicable anytime and I wanted to share it. In the next few months, I plan on featuring articles by Katie. Enjoy!
Are You Motivated? Or are You Committed?
Happy New Year!
Whether or not you have made a New Year’s Resolution, you have likely been thinking about what the New Year is going to bring, what you want to enhance in your life and what you want to shed. With the holidays behind you, you may be motivated to lose weight, eat better, get fit, reduce stress, try a new hobby, and/or get organized. You are excited to pursue something better or different than what you’ve done previously. You want to change, and you think you can do it. That’s great! Whatever your goal or goals may be, you CAN do it. But it’s first important to differentiate between motivation and commitment.
Will you hold on to your goal?
Commitment is long-lasting. It is the difference between setting goals and realizing them. With commitment comes planning and preparation, so plan and prepare your meals for an entire week schedule your specific workouts a week in advance. Set your sights not on short-term satisfaction but instead on the growth you will attain as a result of realizing your goal. Like any successful relationship, the test is not in going through the fun and easy parts, but rather making it to the other side the difficult trials that you will inevitably face.
Your challenge this week is to figure out if you are simply motivated to hit your goals or if you are truly committed to them. (By the way, it’s ok if you are not committed to a goal that sounds exciting and rewarding. Don’t waste your time on it and come up with something you can be committed to!) If you decide that you are committed to the goals you’ve set, then figure out a plan to get you through the easy times as well as the more difficult ones.
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As disheartening this statement may seem, motivation is temporary. With it, comes feelings of exhilaration and hopefulness. With motivation, your goals are like a new relationship, where everything is simple and easy. You decide you want to set these goals because you have a fascination for what it could bring you.
The key is to be emotionally in tune with the fact that reaching goals is hard work. One week, for one reason or another, you will eat a candy bar or not go to the gym. The progress will be slower than you anticipate, and you will feel like you’re spinning your wheels. Even if you do everything right, you may gain a pound or tweak a muscle. Life will happen and shit will hit the fan in one way or another.